BREAK-UPS

BREAK-UPS

A breakup is a state of mind that needs encouragement and needs hopeful, forward thinking. Basically, a bad breakup is never meant to teach you 'I'll never fall in love again.' It's meant to teach you 'Now I better know what makes for healthful, happy love - and thanks to this breakup I'm now better able to recognize it and snag it!' But sometimes Breaking up is hard to do... so it's essential to keep getting wiser - and wiser - about what healthy love is all about. And that's just a symbol of how you should deal with a breakup. You can cry for a little bit, eat some ice cream, but I think, after that, it's like, get up, listen to some powerful music and do something that makes you happy, be productive.

You're breaking up, you're getting together, you're changing your life, you're arguing with your parents, you're making terrible mistakes, you're having great triumphs. That’s what teenage mostly is about.Whether you're dealing with a recent breakup, a fall-out with family, or a failed business venture, be aware that your emotions could affect your spending habits. Uncomfortable emotions can increase the chances that you'll behave recklessly, which may have a negative impact on your bank account.One of the most painful parts of a breakup is having the feeling that your life is a story, and then the other person leaves and takes the story with them. And you're left there without it. You're left in this version of life that's basically a succession of events and interactions that don't seem to be going anywhere.

Sometimes I tell people this: It's easy to write about walking in the park, but it's hard to write about a breakup. I don't think breakups are ever easy for anybody. If they are, they aren't much of a breakup.

I think the worst part about a breakup sometimes, if one could choose a worst part, would possibly be if you get out of a relationship, and you don't recognize yourself because you changed a lot about you. So I am pretty sure about: No one goes straight to happiness after a breakup.